March 30, 2009

FINALLY!! Everything is Over.

Last week was a terrible week for me.

Married for almost 7 years, 1st time having misunderstanding with hubby.
And to make thing worst, before we were able to "clear the air" ,
hubby needed to go for his business trip! Having unsolved issue, made me feel very uncomfortable and unhappy. Same applied for hubby.
I could imagine how he felt when he was all alone there.
And me, with a "soul-less" body, fetching and sending the kids to my sister's place b4 going to work and fetching them back after work.
My mind was is a BIG mess.
Nothing seem to get into my mind.

ABSENCE Really made the Hearts Grow Fonder...
One week without him, I really think a lot and also realised manythings I have been taken for granted.
I should have been more sensitive towards him, or else, this misunderstanding would not happen. haiz.

Luckily, hubby although still "mad" with me, but he still did what he would do whenever he was out of town. he still called home, sent smses.
Finally.. we managed to have a talk before he returned.
When he came back, we were a bit awkward.
Although we have cleared the air, but the feeling still a bit weird.. haha..
(made me think of courtship time)
Think is not easy to say "forget" n really forget.. Thus. the "FISH BONE" still stuck there... and
I "erupted" on this morning... (I buay tahan liao)!!!

Don't know is it due to my "eruption" or what, hubby seem to have soften and we managed to bring back the RIGHT FEEL again.
No more misunderstanding..YES...

To be frank, we never had such "misunderstanding/quarrel" after we got married.
We always "solved" all issues before we go to bed on the very Day! Thus, this time was considered "exceptionally Long"! A bit suffociating feel.

But nevertheless, we are back to the right track and I promised myself, I will never and also will not allow such "misunderstanding" to happen again!!!
(pls don't ask what kind of misunderstanding...hee)

5 comments:

  1. glad that everything went on right track for you and hubby. can feel the suffocation period you had. HUGGZZ

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  2. Sam,
    Thanks for your hugzz..
    I can feel the warmth..

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  3. Hi Mag,
    I can't believe it... first fight in 7 years? It's amazing! If I tell you that I fight with my hubby almost every week, you'll laugh till you drop...

    Really, I'm not kidding you.. big issues or small issues, we always have something to argue...

    When I'm super angry, I will remain silent for days...

    Anyway, I'm glad that you guys have patched things up... Pat pat!

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  4. Hi Mag,
    Glad that you have resolved the problem.. Dun worry, you guys are doing very well.. first quarrel in 7 years? It's amazing...

    I feel bad, cos I always quarrel with my HB.. almost every week... I'm not kidding u... hehehe...

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  5. Emily,
    We have exchange words la.. but not to the extent of fights/quarrel...
    Maybe becos b4 married fought and quarrelled too much liao. So after married, nothing major to create a fight or quarrel.. haha..

    We dated for 10 YEARS b4 we married!!
    A DECADE leh!! Faintz...

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